I've known for a long time that I would use GP's old shirts for the back side of your cloth. But first I needed to over dye them in a green bath to bring them together in a color-way. I ripped the backs from the shirts to start with, holding in reserve the fronts and arms.
Tim, always know that GP's "got your back".
I had no idea until I placed the first shirt back onto the center of the backside how attached I was to the stitches showing there. I frequently flipped it over to admire my handiwork. Aside from being beautiful in my eyes, to see all those stitches was some way of measuring my progress. Whenever I share your cloth with anyone, I always flip it for their response to the gazillion stitches.
The stitches are becoming on the inside as I cover them with new stitches and GP's shirt backs.
Tim, sometimes we have to let go and just keep the beauty an inside memory.
Tim, I'm going to remember that sometimes I should resist my first impulses. And maybe you should too. But most of all, I'm going to remember that "there is always two sides to every story".